Life Lessons

Waiting!!!!!!!!!

Hey YOU. Thank You all *WOWWWW* 31 views since yesterday, that is huge for a newbie like me.

So today, I will be talking about waiting, attitude to imbibe while waiting, the company to keep while waiting etc. I am currently in a waiting phase right now as regards career path and other things so here is what I have learnt and still learning while waiting. Enjoy.

While waiting for/on something or someone, endeavour to be calm and maintain a positive attitude when alone and with people. Worrying has never solved anything and often leads to depression and negative energy, oftentimes we end up wallowing and miss out on other opportunities, relationships, partnerships that may present itself. So instead of focusing on that door, look through the window and enjoy the scenery.

While waiting, you may be cool,calm and sipping some lemonade but some friend/foe/sister/brother/uncle/aunty/dad/mum can be a buzzkill. Always asking for a progress report every five minutes when they know that once the good news comes, they will definitely know. Well, it’s all Love from all of them or most of them *lol*. So what i have learnt is to adopt the * need to know principle*. The fewer people I tell, the fewer people I have to give a progress report and relive excruciatingly explaining to if the answer I got was a No. So asides from maintaining a positive energy, I endeavour to tell as few people as possible.

A time lost can never be regained. Instead of reloading your mail by the minute, cell phone, running to the door every time there is a knock, loosing sleep etc, acquire a skill, read a book, start a blog, grow a garden, go to a boot camp, get involved in a project. And I add my faith to yours and believe you will get that good news very soon.

Thank YOU for taking time out to read this newbie’s post. Please do not hesitate to like, refer,comment, share your own tricks while waiting. xoxoxo.

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8 thoughts on “Waiting!!!!!!!!!

  1. I am soooo honoured and delighted you enjoyed this post, got encouraged and you learnt something from it. Very true @ always expecting something (human need is insatiable). Please start applying the principle, it rili helps.Thank YOU soooo much Damiloju for taking out time to read and comment.

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  2. This is really nice and encouraging! I think life is setup in such a way that we are always waiting for something, looking forward to something new or better. Thank you for teaching me the “need to know” principle. Would definitely start applying it. :* :*

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  3. @tonia.My very first comment. yaaaaayyyyy. Drumroll. Thank Youu. Very true.Happiness is key regardless of the situation. You are the real deal Nneka. xoxoxo

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  4. There is a saying ” Be mindful of your self talk. Its a conversation with the universe.”. Also this part interest me the most; “” So what i have learnt is to adopt the * need to know principle*. The fewer people I tell, the fewer people I have to give a progress report and relive excruciatingly explaining to if the answer I got was a No. So asides from maintaining a positive energy, I endeavour to tell as few people as possible”.
    Am also in the waiting category laffffffffffffffffssssssss, hence i choose to be Happy irrespective of the circumstance. Live, Love and Laugh is the WORD
    BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! @ TOBISLIM

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